How to get the conversation going...

  • What is the one mistake you have made that you will never forget?
  • What do you do when you want to pamper yourself?
  • Would you rather be a driver or a passenger in a car?
  • What is favorite vegetable?
  • Do you have a favorite song?
  • What is your all time favorite TV show?
  • What is your favorite all time movie?
  • If you could be the best at anything in the world, what would you choose?
  • If you could ask any question and get the real answer, what would it be?
  • If granted three wishes, what would they be?
  • If you could be famous for one thing, what would it be?
  • If you won a trip for you and three people, whom would you take?
  • What is your favorite food of all time?
  • What is your favorite animal?  Wild or domestic.
  • If you could choose the method of your ultimate death, what would it be?
  • What is your favorite cologne or perfume?
  • What is your favorite restaurant?
  • Have you ever done a kind act for a complete stranger without their knowledge?
  • What was the biggest party you have ever thrown?
  • Who has had the most impact on your life and why?
  • Whose funeral was the last one you went to?
  • Do you have any “rules” that you follow personally?

  • What is your favorite dessert?  
  • Would you spend the night with your favorite musician/star if you were involved?
  • Can you cook?  What do you like to cook?
  • If you could be anyone else for 24 hours, who would it be and why?
  • What would your funeral eulogy say if you could write your own?
  • If you were stranded on a desert island, what three things would you want with you?
  • What is your favorite spectator sport?  Participant sport?
  • If you could travel back to anywhere in time, where would you go and why?
  • Have you met anyone considered famous?
  • What has been your scariest experience?
  • Do you take risks, often, sometimes or rarely?

  • Do you have anyone who you have chosen not to speak to anymore?
  • What one thing is there that you always have wanted to, but have not yet?
  • As a driver, are you aggressive, passive or moderate?
  • What was the last movie you saw in a theater?
  • When was the last time you gave a speech?
  • Do you dream when sleeping?  What about?
  • What one thing would you like to improve in yourself?
  • What personal belief do you hold that you will never compromise?
  • What was your first concert?
  • What is your earliest childhood memory?
  • What is your favorite holiday?

Deeper questions about experiences and situations...

  • What was your most embarrassing moment or situation?
  • Have you ever wanted to make (or made) a major change in your life?
  • When was the last time you sent flowers or got flowers?  Reason?
  • What has been your greatest personal challenge?  How did it change you?
  • Do you daydream at all?  What do you dream about?
  • Have you ever had anyone in your life you would consider a mentor?
  • What give you an adrenalin rush?
  • Do you drink?  What is your drink of choice?  Why?
  • If the world were going to end tomorrow, what would you do with the time?
  • If I opened your refrigerator right now, what would I find?
  • What would I find if I looked in your wallet?
  • What is your favorite season?  Why and would you like it year round?
  • Have you ever hitchhiked or asked a stranger for a ride?
  • Do you feel comfortable keeping secrets for someone?
  • Have you ever streaked or mooned someone?
  • Have you ever come close to death by an accident or illness?
  • Would you sleep with someone to achieve a goal or job?
  • Have you ever felt deja’ vu strongly? What triggered it?
  • What is the biggest “white” lie you have told and why?
  • Have you ever had any brushes with the law?
  • What was your best Halloween costume as a child or as an adult?
  • Have you ever attended a school reunion?