How to get the conversation going...

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  • What is your favorite sexual position?
  • Do you like to be held or hold after sex?
  • What side of the bed do you like to sleep on?
  • How do dress if you know you are not leaving the house that day?
  • Do you consider yourself a neat freak, sloppy or somewhere in between?
  • Would you end a relationship if you thought your partner was bad in bed?
  • Do you like to hold hands a lot, a little or never thought about it?
  • Do you talk about your partner and sex with your friends?
  • What part of the body do you find most attractive on the opposite sex?
  • Where was the most public place you have had sex?
  • How did you first find out about sex?  Who taught you at first?


PG-rated Sex Joke
Sex Joke
  • What is your sign and do you believe in astrology?
  • What makes you laugh?
  • Have you cried while watching a movie?
  • Do you shop for clothes or go buying for them?
  • Do you take vitamins or supplements?
  • Are you an organized person or neat nick?
  • Are you spiritual or religious?
  • Are you allergic to anything?
  • What was your first impression of me?
  • Are you where you wanted to be by now in your life?
  • What scares you the most about getting old?
  • Are you an organ donor?
  • Do you consider yourself a morning or night person?
  • What would you give your life for?
  • Do you consider yourself mechanically inclined?
  • Have you ever traveled overseas?
  • How often do you think of sex?
  • How often do you balance your checkbook?
  • Do you believe in luck or fate?
  • Are you afraid of being alone when old?
  • What are your biggest pet peeves?
  • Do you consider yourself a Democrat, Republican or independent?
  • What is the one thing you can never say “no” to?
  • What brings out the animal feeling in you?
  • Do you like your lover to tell you about what they want in bed?
  • Do you have any fetishes?
  • What is you most sexually embarrassed moment?
  • What is the most you have had sex in a single day?
  • Are you aggressive or passive during sex?
  • Have you ever been caught in the “act”?
  • Do you masturbate often?
  • On a scale of one to ten, how important is foreplay?
  • How do you define happiness in your life?

Probing questions to share about

habits, fears, and sex...

  • Do you work well under pressure?
  • When are you completely at peace?
  • Have you ever had sex in a public place?
  • Do you prefer to make the first move or let your partner?
  • What is your one secret desire?
  • How would you recognize your lover in the dark?
  • Have you ever had a friend with “benefits”?
  • How do react when you are angry?  Hurt?
  • Are you involved or follow politics at all?
  • Who know you better than anyone?
  • Describe the most memorable sexual experience you have had?
  • What famous person have you fantasized having sex with?
  • Do you like being naked?
  • Are you quiet or loud during sex?
  • What is your favorite part of your body?
  • What turns you on?
  • What is the difference between a good lover and a bad one?
  • Have you ever gotten someone pregnant?
  • When was the last time you went to an adult toy store?
  • Ideally, how many times would you like to have sex a week?
  • Are you ticklish?
  • Do you like or can you dance?